What is Vanilla Sex?

Urban Dictonary defines vanilla sex as "sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey". 


In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. Wikipedia

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