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sub Vivian's personal cleaning process - Not Very Vanilla

sub Vivian's personal cleaning process

My personal enema and cleaning process. From beginning to end, very detailed, specific and includes all the names and links of specific items I use.

sub Vivian's personal cleaning process

My personal enema and cleaning process. From beginning to end, very detailed, specific and includes all the names and links of specific items I use.

Tips for subs getting ready to go on a date with a Dom - Not Very Vanilla

Tips for subs getting ready to go on a date wit...

Not every sub is for every Dom, and vice versa (I'm so surprised how much new ppl are so shocked by this concept) you are interviewing them just as much...

Tips for subs getting ready to go on a date wit...

Not every sub is for every Dom, and vice versa (I'm so surprised how much new ppl are so shocked by this concept) you are interviewing them just as much...

Allow Space for Jealousy - Not Very Vanilla

Allow Space for Jealousy

When I first began researching ethical non-monogamy and the different forms of it. There's always that first question that everyone always asks. What about jealousy?

Allow Space for Jealousy

When I first began researching ethical non-monogamy and the different forms of it. There's always that first question that everyone always asks. What about jealousy?

What should a Dom ask a sub - Not Very Vanilla

What should a Dom ask a sub

“What questions should a beginner dominant ask a potential sub that will help them know if the sub is right for them?”

What should a Dom ask a sub

“What questions should a beginner dominant ask a potential sub that will help them know if the sub is right for them?”

What is ENM and why should you care? - Not Very Vanilla

What is ENM and why should you care?

It’s sort of a blanket term used for all the different ways 2 (or more) people may agree to structure their relationship. The options and configurations are endless.

What is ENM and why should you care?

It’s sort of a blanket term used for all the different ways 2 (or more) people may agree to structure their relationship. The options and configurations are endless.